That`s not what you signed up for! Well, here are some quick options to try to get back on track. Explore your partner`s childhood. These may be statements such as. B the time each child goes to bed, the children have to ask before playing outside and the homework must be done before using the electronics. Show your children the rules and ask them if they have any questions. Be open to their ideas and suggestions, and make changes if they are appropriate. It is easier to impose rules on which everyone can agree. Try to talk to find common ground. If the discussion does not go well, you should have a therapist to lead the conference and make it more productive.
Your happiness, the happiness of your spouse, and above all, the happiness of your children depends on it. Today I receive a text that my child has decided to leave my wife. No discussion, nothing. Remember that our child has a very good chance of getting a sports scholarship. The coach has some influence, because they were also traveling bus were most scholarsshios come out. Ideally, you and your partner discussed your educational strategies long before you chose a common child. But even if you haven`t, it`s not too late to start. especially if your child has special needs.
It can be helpful to find for those who have negative childhood discipline experiences, these parents often promised not to repeat the same discouraging behaviors on their own children. Most couples have experienced this situation at some point – you think you should discipline your child in some way, and your spouse or co-parent wants to manage it differently. You`re all anchoring yourself in your position. And what started as a problem between you and your child quickly turns into a problem between you and your spouse. You are no longer a team parent. Or when Dad says, “Mommy`s going to get mad with this broken vase!” The kid thinks Mom cares more about the vase than Dad. It`s about teaching your child to make the best decisions possible in the future and learn from their mistakes so they can become a well-suited adult. And not only that, the struggle between parents increases the level of anxiety in the home, which is more likely for your child to act or isolate himself. What do you do when a parent is too harsh (my husband) and too stubborn to give in or compromise. My teenagers are miserable and he treats them like toddlers.
For example, my new daughter doesn`t have a cell phone yet. My youngest daughter does and my husband complains all the time that she doesn`t need a phone except when she drives. My husband goes to his room and throws away clothes he doesn`t like. For example, I did the girls` errands. I told the saleswoman that I needed shorts that girls could wear to school and that school was the length. The girls tried on the shorts – they looked very beautiful on them and a lot long.